Tuesday, September 25, 2012
What do I mean by full cicle?
As a teenager, I didn't imagine I would someday say "I am a survivor of domestic violence." I planned to meet a wonderful man (I believed I did), marry him (was good for about 8 to 10 years), have children (2 sons), and live happily ever after. I can't pinpoint a specific time that we stepped into the circle of domestic violence because it was insidiously slow and disguised itself as every other type of problems. We circled in chaos for a total of 23 years when we separated and our divorce was finalized the week of our 25th anniversary. Journaling, counseling and a domestic violence support group helped me to step out of the full circle of domestic violence into becoming a survivor.
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I'm sure journaling would help. Thank you for sharing! I love the way you write!
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